both/and

Who Holds the Story?

Oct 9, 2026 | After, For Adopted People, For the Adoption Constellation

A “Good” Adoption: Perspective on the Paradox of Adoption

Sep 10, 2025 | After, For Adopted People, For Adoptive Parents

A guide for adoptive parents to support thriving adoptees.

Simon Benn Interviews Coach Gayle H. Swift

Jul 22, 2022 | After, For Adoptive Parents, Podcast

Being Cassandra: Sharing an Unwelcome Truth

Aug 20, 2021 | After, For Adoptive Parents

GIFT Giving 2020: What Do Adoption Attuned Parents Choose?

Dec 2, 2020 | After, For Adoptive Parents

Making Space for Remembrance and a Complete Picture

May 27, 2019 | After, For Adoptive Parents, For the Adoption Constellation

Adoptee’s Birthdays Blend Laughter and Tears, Joy and Sadness

Apr 23, 2019 | After, For Adoptive Parents, For the Adoption Constellation

Decorated Christmas tree with star topper.

The Grace of Both/and during the Holidays

Dec 5, 2018 | After, For Adoptive Parents

Gifts That Endure: Time, Attention and Validation

Nov 29, 2017 | After, For Adoptive Parents

Both/And Parenting, Making Healthy Decisions

Aug 26, 2015 | After, For Adoptive Parents, For the Adoption Constellation