by Gayle Swift | Aug 13, 2024 | Adoptive parenting, Navigating open adoptions, Tri-relational Interconnectivity
In their most recent vlog birth mother Kim Noeth, adoptee Sharon Butler Obazee, and adoptive parent Sally Ankerfelt interviewed Brian De Vos, an adoptive dad of two now-adult children. Brian, is the son of an adoptee as well as an adoptive parent. This provided him...
by Gayle Swift | Jul 10, 2024 | Adoptee experience, Adoption Attuned Parenting, Adoption constellation, Adoption success, Adoptive parenting
This familiar phrase plays out on nearly every family journey. It always seems to take longer to get to a desired destination. Children nearly burst with a need to vocalize their barely restrained anticipation. Parents might be less vocal. Yet often, they too are...
by Gayle Swift | May 8, 2024 | Adoptee experience, Adoption constellation, Adoption products, Adoptive parenting
Adoption, Expectations, and Mothering Since 2011, this blog has shared thoughts and insights on many aspects of adoptive family life and relationships. Consequently, our expectations, thoughts, feelings, and understanding about adoption and mothering have evolved in...
by Gayle Swift | Apr 10, 2024 | Adoptive parenting, Adoptive Parenting Skills/Tool|Blogs by Gayle Swift|Faith and Values|General Discussion|Post Adoption Challenges & Behaviors|School & IEP Support|Strengthening Family Relationships, difficult conversations
“Hard” conversations can benefit & strengthen relationships After interviewing Isaac Etter, the recipient of our 2024 Shaping the Future Award, my colleagues and I gathered to share reflections on community and powerful conversations. Isaac mentioned the...
by Gayle Swift | Mar 2, 2024 | Adoptee experience, Adoption Attunement, Adoption success, Adoptive parenting, Adoptive Parenting Skills/Tool|Blogs by Gayle Swift
In our previous blog, we named Isaac Etter as the 2024 recipient of our SHAPING THE FUTURE AWARD. We believe that his insightful work is making a difference in support of adoptees and the families who love them. We wanted to recognize how Isaac was shaping the...
by Gayle Swift | Feb 29, 2024 | Adoption Attunement, Adoption constellation, Adoptive parenting
Of course, talking about adoption matters. Adoption brings out big feelings for everyone involved. Finding the words and opportunity to discuss adoption with one another can often be challenging. While it can be tempting to avoid these conversations. Talking about...