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On Mothers and Mothering

On Mothers and Mothering

Mother’s Day is the defining event of the month. So, for those of us connected by adoption, May is a month fraught with emotions. Social media, television, and advertisements overflow with mentions of Mother’s Day and mothers. However, for us motherhood is steeped in ambiguity. For some, Mother’s Day evokes joy, pride, and pleasure. For others, it awakens grief, heartache, regret, and sometimes, despair.

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Find Calm in the Midst of Chaos

Find Calm in the Midst of Chaos

Parents and children are feeling the weight of many scary issues. School shootings. Droughts. Floods. Deadly viruses. Extreme political discord, etc. This can discourage even the most positive-minded folks leaving them feeling powerless and overwhelmed. Finding a way to respond with action grounds us and eases hopelessness. Parents can help families find calm in the midst of chaos. Choose action over worry. Practice relationship repair. Model a willingness to learn & risk failure.

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Five Goals for Growing Your Perspective of Adoption

Five Goals for Growing Your Perspective of Adoption

n acknowledgment that November is National Adoption  Awareness Month, we challenge you to GROW your perspective of adoption. We invite you to move beyond seeing adoption as a “blessing” or “miracle” to embrace the more complicated reality. Help build a more nuanced conversation about adoption one that acknowledges the bitter and the sweet, the losses and the gains, the heartache and the joy. Here are several GROW suggestions to which you might commit. If you prefer, please create some of your own.

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