Our Young Adult Daughter Returns to Her Birth Family

Not long ago, I returned from work to find my soon-to-be 20 year-old daughter frantically washing her clothes. Just that morning, she had called to announce that she was heading back to the birth family and town she left behind eight short years earlier when she...

Gremlins

As an adult, a nasty little gremlin occasionally lurks in my mind’s ear. Usually, I can activate my mute button and silence the negativity—but not always. This inner voice sabotages efforts, magnifies doubts, inflates faults and rehashes mistakes. This gremlin knows...

Compassion-“The Good, The Bad And The Ugly”

Like the Clint Eastwood movie, I have seen my share of “The Good, The Bad, And The Ugly” since adopting my two sons. I have experienced joy, anger, happiness and sadness. I have struggled with accepting what is and realizing that I can’t control...

Supporting Maltreated Children

The following is an excerpt from Supporting Maltreated Children by Dr. Bruce Perry, M.D., Ph.D. Helping Maltreated Children Responsive adults—parents, teachers, and other caregivers—make all the difference in the lives of maltreated children, so: Nurture these...